3 Times is a Charm?

So, i was accepted into the Manager in Training program at my company for 2012, after a 3rd time trying. i heard a lot of 3rd Time is a Charm.... 
What does that mean? 

  • There is superstition that it is unlucky to take a third light, that is, to be the third person to light a cigarette from the same match or lighter. This superstition is sometimes asserted to have originated among soldiers in the trenches of the First World War when a sniper might see the first light, take aim on the second and fire on the third.
        • The phrase "Third time's the charm" refers to the superstition that after two failures in any endeavor, a third attempt is more likely to succeed.





Bible Verse
"I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus"
 Philippians 3:14 (New International Version)

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Press On(1377) GREEK (dioko from dío = pursue, prosecute, persecute) means to follow or press hard after, literally to pursue as one does a fleeing enemy. It means to chase, harass, vex and pressure and was used for chasing down criminals. Dioko speaks of an intensity of effort leading to a pursue with earnestness and diligence in order to obtain. To go after with the desire of obtaining or in some contexts the desire to harm. It gives us the picture of going on the track of something like the hounds on the hunt and pursuing after the fox and implying a continuing effort to overtake, reach, or attain the goal.

I press toward the mark - As he who was running a race did. The "mark" means properly the object set up at a distance at which one looks or aims, and hence the goal, or post which was set up at the end of a race-course, and which was to be reached in order that the prize might be won. Here it means that which is at the end of the Christian race - in heaven.

For the prize - The prize of the racer was a crown or garland of olive, laurel, pine, or apple; see the notes at 1 Corinthians 9:24. The prize of the Christian is the crown that is incorruptible in heaven.
Of the high calling of God - Which is the end or result of that calling. God has called us to great and noble efforts; to a career of true honor and glory; to the obtainment of a bright and imperishable crown. It is a calling which is "high," or "upward" - (ἄνω anō) - that is, which tends to the skies. The calling of the Christian is from heaven, and to heaven; compare Proverbs 15:24. He has been summoned by God through the gospel of the Lord Jesus to secure the crown. It is placed before and above him in heaven. It may be his, if he will not faint or tire or look backward. It demands his highest efforts, and it is worth all the exertions which a mortal can make even in the longest life.

Bible Verse
1 Corinthians 9:24
 Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize.(NIV)
You've all been to the stadium and seen the athletes race. Everyone runs; one wins. Run to win. All good athletes train hard. They do it for a gold medal that tarnishes and fades. You're after one that's gold eternally(The Message)

Okay this was the long answer for the Question...LOL  I have worked hard and have been more focused upon my return to the company. My Leaders have helped refine my leadership skills which has helped me become the Leader i am Today... So, is third time a charm? I'll take it!!! LOL but really it is that pursuit of something, pursuit of the Goal, and of course we cannot forget it's God's timing. 
I remember when i was laid off from my full time position at the church, i was so excited, the HR person thought I was nuts,  because i really thought i was going to go out a run or lead a Children’s Program somewhere else, based on prayers and “signs”. I eventually took on a interim Director position as a Church. Whoo Hoo, NOT!! God showed me through the blindness of my excitement, that i was burnt out.  It was a hard lesson because i was sure it was God's Will for me, but what he really wanted was for me to Chill Out.. Rest.. Train or prepare for the next race.. I am still training and leaving it up to GOD as to the track or route that i am to take... 

I Pray that in these tough times that you do not lose sight of that. God has a plan for you! Even though we go through Hell sometimes, we make some good and not so good choices in life, You are still part of His plan! Ask Him what that is, He may not answer right away, or He may be answering you and you are just not wanting to see it.. He says, “Be still, and know that I am God… (Psalm 46:10, NIV). Sometime we just need to listen, sit back and see what we are doing, because chance are you are already doing His work.. It may not look like church work, or serving food at a homeless shelter, it may just being you and setting an example of Christ for the people around you. Just listening to someone at work drop their miseries on you, and they see Christ in you and you lift them up just by buying them a cup of coffee…I may be a Customer at work that you just smile or say something nice that makes their day… Making people laugh… Praying for people, making cakes for people, serving in the community, making a difference in someone’s life, your community… yes we need to support our churches, but that is not the only way God uses our gifts and talents! AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!

Facebook Part Duex!





          You just posted something  or sent a private massage to someone specifically and they have not responded as fast as you want, and you tend to get antsy. , wondering why they are not responding right away.. Sound familiar?
If you sit with your phone with you 24/7 or stop what you are doing because your phone beep or computer is alerting you someone responded to back to you or made a comment....  Then you know what i am talking about... LOL
"When you are tempted, you shouldn't say, "God is tempting me."
 God can't be tempted by evil. And he doesn't tempt anyone.
But your own evil longings tempt you. They lead you on and drag you away.
When they are allowed to grow, they give birth to sin.
When sin has grown up, it gives birth to death "
 (James 1:13-15, NIV). 
"What i have noticed, and we all can speak to this, is that when people are stressed or under pressure or whatever, they start to look for something to get away, or if there is a void they try to fill it. Most people turn to Drinking, smoking, drugs, gambling, etc.. Now we have Facebook. People can connect with people, and do so in a manner without anyone seeing or everyone seeing and knowing their business. It is a quick fix."

Why is this? We can't wait to hear from a certain person or people.  We get impatient waiting to see what people or that specific person has to say to our post or response. 
We sit by our phones or computers just waiting for a response, that Quick hit". 
We are very familiar with it outside of social Media. Just talking to a specific person in person or on the phone or waiting for the phone to ring or email from someone.
It has just become a lot more easier with social Media. 

We have all experienced how the enemy can throw some bait in front of us and tempt us. Whether is it a good friend, old boyfriend or girlfriend, co-workers, etc... does not have to be a sexual thing but, we find ourselves, all of a sudden enjoying someones company more than usual, i am speaking more into the Facebook aspect or online, not in person, though it can be just as harmful.  Though not physically harmful, I have seen where it is mentally harmful or draining.
How people handle themselves is what can get them in trouble.. the temptation is there and they are thriving on it and their filters all of a sudden shut down and they can get sucked into harmful situations..... I would have to say or recommend that if you find yourself in a awkward situation, or you are spending way too much time on there, GET OFF.. don't let Facebook lead you down the path of sin as the Bible Verse stats above..  

Please note that i am not saying everyone that is on Facebook  is stalking someone or secretly has the Hots for someone.. Just like people who like to drink are not all addicts... I challenge you to chop off the amount of time spent on Facebook and see how you do.. Let me know!!!  

Americans Logged 101,000 Years of Facebook Time in Single Month
Natalie Wolchover, Life's Little Mysteries Staff Writer
Date: 14 September 2011 Time: 12:13 PM ET

A report released Sept. 11 by Nielsen, the media research and ratings company, reveals that Americans are spending more time than ever perusing social networks and blogs. Unsurprisingly, the report found that "Americans spend more time on Facebook than any other site."
In May, the most recent month for which data were collected, Americans spent 53.5 billion total minutes on Facebook — or roughly 101,720 years. As there were 140 million unique visitors to the site that month, the average user spent 382 minutes, or 6.4 hours, browsing Facebook in May.

Wow, that is a lot of Time... this has become the new couch potato....I could come up with a nick name for Facebook, but would probably offend someone!! LOL 

I know i am all over the place on this one... you should have seen the original entry...LOL
Facebook is a great tool to connect with people that we don't get to see on a regular basis.. It should not be a replacement for normal means of communication or therapy!!
 
PRAYER
Lord i pray right now for those having a difficult time right now with it being the holidays.  I ask that you touch their hearts and minds and show them the real reason for the Season...
I pray you bring people into their lives or a church that will make an impact on them.. I lift up those struggling with personal issues that they feel boxed in and there seems to be no light at the end of the tunnel..  I pray for relationships, finances, families, work, and health for those that are asking and those that are too proud to ask YOU!! I pray for any addictions out there! i pray you STOP them and heal people confined under the enemy!! Break the Chains! Heal the marks! Heal their souls.  Rain down your Glory and Mercy!!!!
In Your Precious name AMEN AMEN AMEN. 

Playing Santa!

One of my favorite Events!!!!
The school is located in a low income neighborhood.
They decorate their Activity Center with a festive theme.  
The Kids come in see Santa, get a hug or Fist bump, and a Candy Cane.
They then go in assembly line fashion and receive their gifts, from toys, books, shoes, and snacks.. 

The majority of the Kids light up when they get to see Santa!
The older ones are their usual skeptical selves, but we manage to get a smile or laugh out of them.. 
Santa tries to personalize each meeting to make it special for each child, it can be a their glasses, or a bow in their hair, to a Spiderman jacket, or their Hair style.  Every now and then I throw a “didn’t I see you at the mall or store last weekend” and get lucky.
The HUGS are my favorite part.
You can tell that some of these kids don’t get enough hugs!!
I have to add that the adults whether they are the school staff or parents, enjoy sitting with or on Santa’s lap as well!!!!


I'm Sexy and i Know it!!


     That has got to be the Stupidest song EVER, but i can guarantee  we are all singing it!! LOL
I am waiting to post the next part of Facebook Addition, but it has gotten out of hand with all the directions i can go with it..  so please stay tuned...
So today is my Birthday!!! I am 30 something....... and Feel Great...  Okay so i am really 40 something but you know how they say it's the new 30...I know Whatever Right!! LOL

Proverbs 4:10-13 (NIV)
10 Listen, my son, accept what I say,
   and the years of your life will be many.
11 I instruct you in the way of wisdom
   and lead you along straight paths.
12 When you walk, your steps will not be hampered;
   when you run, you will not stumble.
13 Hold on to instruction, do not let it go;
                                                                guard it well, for it is your life.
So i was thinking about this on my way into work at 2:00 AM. God's Word is our manual, similar to a Car manual..He gives us guidance , and what we need to do in order to live a fulfilled life in HIM.. So i was watching a TV evangelist this morning before i change the TV to MTV and saw the Sexy and i know it video, i don't think i knew this particular pastor, but he was screaming how we just have to believe and God will take care of our health and finances etc... and that was it.. this, to me is kind of scary, because Yes GOD can and will do anything.. he is God,, but i can see how this type of teaching can cause more damage to a new believer even a strong believe without proper teaching.... I don't Think God is a Stupid God... Why would He, though he can, heal someone who is purposely not taking care of himself...this is a person let say who knows he is eating unhealthy, an just not purposely taking care of his body and knows it.. he ask for healing but continues to do the same, keeps asking for healing and finally gets to the point he is in death bed, and still no healing, he all of a sudden based on what the pastor was saying is now blaming God for not healing him, because he was naming it and clamming it, it did not happen... Same with Peoples' finances.. If they are not using their money wisely, why would God want to help them, if they are just going to
end up the same as before... Again, i am not saying He can't do it or won't, but why would He..Now I know he provides us with opportunities to be Blesses by Him if we take advantage of them..  If we are bombarded with ways to eat healthy, or budget our money, these can be His ways of blessing us if we take advantage of it.. if we do not, we can easily put the blame on God for not receiving His favor... Please do not think i am against the name it and clam it pastors, but i do feel that there is a lot of responsibility attached to this type of teaching.. 
PRAYER
lord i lift up everyone right now, that is dealing with financial issues, health issues, being away from family for whatever reason; depression you name it, LORD and i asked that you touch their hearts, open their eyes, and listen to YOU.. YOU may have already answered their Prayers and yet they have not noticed it or want to.. Lord i pray for the upcoming holidays as this is a tough time of year for almost everyone.. i pray for peace on decisions that have to be made, for as my friend says, that they focus on the TRUE REASON FOR THE SEASON, and not so much of the commercialism that can easily cause depression.. I pray for those away from their families for work, military, or family issues that you touch everyone effected with your hand of comfort and love and help them make it through the way only You can!!! 
In Your Precious Name! AMEN AMEN AMEN!!! 

P.S. Spell check not working today!!! LOL i tried to clean it up as much as i could!!